Hide and seek
October 22, 2007 by abitha
Human relationships are a fascinating subject. It is difficult to fathom why we like the people we like, it never helps to logically seek reasons for why we cannot stand the sight of somebody or why we become intimidated by the one we love and when you often hold conversations with them fluently in your mind, why it becomes exceedingly difficult to accomplish a friendly exchange in person.
When through your life it is so easy to fall in and out love with different subjects, people, places, cultures, cuisines it is a daunting task indeed to define your feelings for a particular person, place or experience in black and white. Life has numerous shades of grey, it is never easy to isolate an experience or feeling and glorify it as the mother of all feelings. Such an impact is the stuff only writers can contain within the power of their words. The emotions contained within a person often vie with each other for attention that often they become an avalanche that gathers momentum and takes the individual completely by surprise. When this avalanche rolls over the person who feels the emotion, he can but feel the impact of each of these fragments for only a fraction of a second.
I suppose that is why we often get glimpses of something special, fleeting glimpses that come and go. In all this frenzy one needs to capture the moment, savour it and make sense of it before you can even blink. It is a hide and seek game indeed!
Abi, where did you copy-paste this from? Total hi-fi stuff.
Just kidding okay. I associate myself with a lot of things you say in this piece. But I think I just tend to dismiss any such thoughts and move ahead.
So felt nice to read this on your blog. Keep it going.
Dingo…okay since you admitted you were kidding…will let it pass. That was the first piece for the blog I have been wanting to start writing for in a long time. A chance conversation made me realize that I had been out of touch with writing for the sake of writing, so trying to get something going. Thanks for the nice responses and it feels good to know that you took the time to read and respond
and by the way have a fabulous b’day dude.
Cheers
Abitha
Hi, remember me??
I agree with Nimish, copy pasted stuff…and I am also just kidding!!
Nice to see a blog where someone has opened up, I am sure most people have these questions…great someone attempted to get some answers and put it down so wonderfully…
Good stuff, enjoyable, insightful & nicely written. Keep at it!!
Thanks once again for the b’day wishes!
Hey Yash….ofcourse I very much remember you dude
and thanks for the response. Am totally thrilled with all the nice comments and sure as hell that will keep me going. Please do continue to stop by
There are some bugs apparently, I dont know why your comment was in the spam list….I just now saw it and hence the delayed response…..
In spite of being dragged into all the frenzy around and the mental pop up blocker set those moments just zap out of thin air. Some I cherish and some I don’t. Hmmmm…The tug of war of emotions..They exist forever…
Well… a …”sereen” state of mind is hard to accomplish and in fact when your mind is at tug of war with emotions is when you get around to do something about it, making choices in life…
Hey Abi,
Deep stuff. Very interesting read. Keep it going